Gender Roles In Marriage

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An evangelical marriage is based on traditional values of a symbiosis of a superior husband and a submissive, supportive wife. The hierarchy within a marriage was conducted on the “assumed superiority, on the part of the husband, and admitted inferiority, with a promise of obedience, on the part of the wife” (Mott 210), homosexuality was considered undesirable and marriage was deprived for heterosexual couples. This binary arrangement is based on cooperation and strict apportionment of duties and responsibilities, such as household chores on the female part of the marriage, while the husband supplied the household economically. Even though both parties depend on each other is “the legal theory is that marriage makes the husband and wife one…show more content…
Moreover, did the traditional gender roles perfectly complement each other, one spouse would be fragmentary without the other sex, hence “the essence of manhood complemented the essence of womanhood” (Gallagher 31). Females would be traditionally devotional, while males were considered as the opposite of pious. Again, women were stereotypically sexually pure, and men, on the other hand, the antagonist of the female stereotype, being typically lusty. However a mother's primary role was to “instill[ed] civic virtues in the next generation. As fathers who worked outside the home became less of a daily presence in their children's lives, the cult of true womanhood exalted to notion of motherhood as the moral foundation of society” (Gallagher 31). So, immaculate womanhood comprised a paradigm of moral standards for…show more content…
Additionally, had the “the virtuous wife […] to enjoy […] self-sacrificial love and encouraged to make every effort to put aside her will in favor of her husbands” (Gallagher 20). Even, when the evangelical ideals of a marriage were not fulfilled and “failed to live up to their ideals of mutual support and affection, wives were urged not to abuse their abusive husbands but to pray for them, comfort them with readings from the Scriptures and the law, distract them from their ill temper, and bear with them patiently” (Gallagher 22). Those suggested measurements often victimized mothers and house wives, and degrade them in a submissive position, in which a woman rather fulfill traditional gender roles than defend herself. Though wives were to suspended to their husband’s secular power the ascendancy was constraint, since “wives were protected by law from physical abuse; were not obliged to obey any command contrary to the laws from God; and were entitled to the provision, protection, and guiding council of their husbands" (Gallagher
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