Relational Dialectics

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Relational dialectics is the study of how communication constructs and continuously changes relationships, conducted through the analysis of contradiction, change, praxis and totality. Often interpreted as "a knot of contradictions in personal relationships or an unceasing interplay between contrary or opposing tendencies"(Griffin, 2012, p.154); the theory of relational dialectics defines and examines communication patterns as they emerge between parties due to dialectical tensions. According to Baxter & Montgomery (1998), “Dialectical theory is a sensitizing tool, a prism that contains multiple related perspectives on the process of relating” (p.11). Relational dialectics rests on the supposition that all associations are intertwined with…show more content…
Noncopresent relationships present distinctive contradictions and challenges due in part to the geographical distance, lack of physical contact, degree of interaction and maintenance strategies enacted to sustain the relationship. Studies indicate that long distance romantic relationships are becoming more common. The upsurge in long distance relationships are attributed to contemporary advancements in technology and global access to efficient telecommunication devices, instant messaging, video calling, and social media platforms; allowing couples the ability to maintain steady contact and communicate regularly using multiple telecommunication and internet outlets (Sahlstein, 2004;Chang, 2003, as cited in Bejerano & Church, 2009). From the perspective of relational dialectic theory, the study of long distance romantic relationships is a bountiful arena for investigating the cluster of contradictions referred to as stability-change. When couples transition from living in close proximity to “noncopresence”, inherent changes in interaction and communication occur. Despite the availability of communication channels and the ability to interact in a virtual capacity on a regular basis, long distance couples are presented with increased stress and relational tension as a result of being physically separated. Bejerano and Church (2009) contend “… use of technology does not…show more content…
Interpersonal security comes into question when relationship partners agree to proceed with long distance romantic involvement. Murray, Holmes, Griffin, Bellavia, & Rose (as cited in Bejerano & Church, 2009) assert, “Partners must make an “inferential leap of faith” and believe that the other person is willing to maintain the relationship” (p.3). However, the contradictions associated with stability-change present a substantial about of tension for long distance couples as compared to couple that are geographically close. The stability of a relationship has the potential to become unhinged when couples move apart from one another. During prolonged separation, couples are confined to specific modes, times, and channels of communication. Moreover, couples much adapt to the change in proximity by adopting new patterns of communication and acquire systems of substantial engagement and satisfying interactions in order to substitute face-to-face
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