The crisis of "PeDe" among adolescents
It is indeed difficult to know yourself without any references from others. The view of the others is considered very important to describe what the actual self. Someone will learn who and what he is from the other person through the bond as members of a particular group. This relationship will be more powerful if they each have their respective interests. The existence of this relationship could we know for what we are.
If there is someone who does not like we felt we probably asked "what's wrong with me?", "why does he not love me?", after we got the answers to these question from the view of others, then we will start fixing a wrong of us. This proves the existence of a need for the views of others…show more content… This exclusion occurs if a group felt that one of its membershas not been in accordance with the interests that would be achieved. Exclusion can arise due to the inability of a person to comply with the values and norms that are in the group. Inability to adapt to the social environment refers to the inability to connect and interact with others. Sometimes he also felt too many differing social norms make it confused should abide by the norms and values which so failed to acknowledge and customisations against the wishes of a group or society.
Social exclusion is a sanction that is negative. Social exclusion will point to the experience of negative emotions such as anxiety, depression, loneliness and feeling isolated (Baumeister & Leary, 1995; Baumeister & Tice, 1990; Gardner, Pickett, & Brewer,2000).
The solution of the crisis "pede" on teenagers that is started from the study yourself. Understand what the benefits and what the drawbacks. Optimize excess owned and control deficiencies. Try to always think positively about yourself. Don't ever be afraid to go wrong. If we never experience the error, we will never get ahead and headed for