to our roots as social creatures, as a way of protecting one’s status within the community. Their status, not ours. The 12-steppers have a term for this: Grandiosity. Grandiosity means that the individual has an unrealistic sense of their own importance. Those who exhibit grandiosity will find it hard to accept anything but their own truths and when things conflict with their truths they will quickly find reasons to blame other people. No matter how bad this individual messes up their life they