survive and thrive. Because connections and relationships with other individuals are a characteristic that is so deeply embedded in human nature, it is inevitable that the consequences of such interactions will profoundly impact one’s self. In her essay “Hard to Get: Twenty-Something Women and the Paradox of Sexual Freedom,” Leslie Bell describes the experiences of two women, Jayanthi and Alicia, and the impact that their familial and sexual relationships have on their conceptions of self and their