Twenty-Something Women And The Paradox Of Sexual Freedom Analysis

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Today in the twenty-first century, women are held to high expectations. They are held to not only the expectations of their family and peers, but also they are held to the expectations of society itself. Women are expected to not only succeed in their career, but also to succeed in their love life. However, this is not always the case. In Leslie Bell’s “Selections From Hard to Get: Twenty-Something Women and the Paradox of Sexual Freedom”, Bell states, “today more women attend college than do men, and women make up close to half of all law and medical school graduates” (28). Women are on the up and coming rise in the academic and professional field, but this does not always correlate to the number of successful relationships they have. In many cases, women are pressured into unhealthy or unhappy relationships due to the biological clock that is ticking. There is an unspoken pressure to find a man “who is ‘good enough’ and hold on to him for dear life” (27). While these women may find a man who…show more content…
It can help give women a sense of identity (33). Women have a desire to feel something and want something. They are guided by cultural expectations to want to be in a committed relationship and to want to get married. In the process of meeting these expectations, they encounter conflicts. Some conflicts can be from the pressure of families and peers on top of society. Health risks and pressure to get married and have children before a certain age are also taken into factors. However, it only adds to the pressure to find a perfect man. Women want to find someone they are compatible with and in most cases, to find their destined husband, they encounter other men along the way. It is not always happy in the end and sometimes ends badly. This then pushes women to feel the need to fill the void by sleeping around with other men. It ends up being a paradox within the

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