Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics

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In Book VIII of the Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle draws attention to the value of friendship, asserting its importance for to living a happy life “For no one would choose to live without friends” (NE 8.1.1155a3-4). However, what is it about friendship that makes it considered a necessity for living a happy life? Is it really necessary and can one live without it? This essay will examine the necessity and importance that Aristotle has placed on friendship, what its purpose serves for why it’s considered an important value for life, and is there any evidence pertaining to the belief that it is not necessary for the pursuing a life of happiness. Aristotle makes it known at the beginning of Book VIII that friendship is necessary for living a virtuous…show more content…
Aristotle explains, however, that the friendships of utility and pleasure can easily dissolve and only friendship of excellence is considered the "perfect" friendship. The reason for this is, Aristotle explains, is because friendship of utility relies on personal gain for one’s self and friendship of pleasure relies on materialism and beauty and things that are pleasurable but never fulfilling which is why neither is considered a “perfect” friendship because neither possess any virtue. Friendship of excellence is the opposite of utility and pleasure because it’s complete. This type of friendship consists of few people who are close to each other, have built trust in each other over time, and where each person possess morals of good quality. This friendship is more successful for the relationship between friends is based on love, which is non-romantic, and each person wants the best for everyone in the…show more content…
In his work The Four Loves, C. S. Lewis explains the virtue of friendship (philia) in great detail and provides the following conclusion about the friendship debate: “Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself (for God did not need to create it). It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival” (Lewis 103). C.S. Lewis proclaims that “To the Ancients, Friendship seemed the happiest and most fully human of all loves; the crown of life and the school of virtue. The modern world, in comparison ignores it” (Lewis 87). Lewis bluntly states the reason for why it’s ignored is because “few experience it” (Lewis
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