An unknown author states, "True parenting requires a great deal of skills." In the same manner, Richard Wilbur in his poem "The Writer", illustrates a father who wisely decided whether or not he should help his daughter through a dilemma she faced. Through this poem, I can easily identify with some essential qualities related to effective parenting such as being observant, understanding and reflective.
Primarily, parents should always be observant. In the poem, Wilbur speaks of a father at home who discovered - by listening to the typewriter - that his daughter was experiencing writer's block. Because of this attained knowledge, the father was able to take the best course of action in regards to the issue. Similarly, all parents can be much more efficient through attentiveness; this creates increased awareness in terms of their child's interests and shortcomings. I recently read a magazine which read, "Scientists, teachers and even local businessmen spend days observing, can parents skip this process?" Therefore, I whole heartedly believe that exceptional parents are for the most part, vigilant.…show more content… Wilbur suggests to his readers that the daughter in the poem didn't want assistance from her father- "But now it is she who pauses, As if to reject my thought…." As a result, the quick-witted father comprehended his daughter's reservation and knew that interrupting her would only cause frustration. Just like the father, competent parents approach situations cautiously, taking into consideration their child's emotions to avoid confusion and headache. I recently overheard an estimate on a local radio station whereas the host revealed, "Eight out of ten children who succeed have parents who handle sensitive situations delicately." How remarkable! So, if one truly wants to be an ideal parent, he or she must also have the knack of being