Why My Mother Wants Me Dead Summary

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Why my mother wants me dead? This essay is based in the article “Why my mother wants me dead” by Sabatina James. The essay will focus on reasons for the conflict between Sabatina and her parents and include a discussion of the solution to the problems. First reason for conflicts is Sabatinas wish to have the freedom other European children have. In Europe, all people, regardless of their gender, religion or sexuality have the same rights. However, Sabatinas parents had failed to adapt to the European way of life, and chose to live a conservative Islamic lifestyle, which they wanted to drag their daughter into. For example, they fought about swimming lessons, acting classes and tampons, which her parents thought were for prostitutes and that…show more content…
Sabatina’s parents, especially her mother, think that she has to settle into an arranged marriage, and live an Islamic lifestyle. However, Sabatina disagrees. The following is an example on how Sabatina refuses to submit to an arranged marriage: “My mother began watching my every move. One day, when she found a T-shirt that she felt was too skimpy, she smacked me hard in the face with a shoe, splitting my lip. Still, I refused to submit. I didn’t want to disappear into a forced marriage. I wanted my freedom” Sabatina didn’t want to disappear into a forced marriage. What she meant with that sentence was that, if she agrees to submit into a forced marriage, she would lose her freedom, and no longer have the opportunity to live a life as a free woman. 1. Hvad mener…show more content…
I lived in a room with around 30 other girls—no chairs, no beds, no ventilation. In that room, we did nothing all day but study the Quran, pray, and listen to lectures on the prophet from a mullah, who stood behind a curtain. If a girl spoke out of turn, she would be publicly caned in the courtyard of the compound. Flies and vermin swarmed the washrooms. There were no sanitary napkins, just blood-stained towels. The toilet was a hole in the ground. After three months, I stopped eating, and got expelled. Eventually, I agreed to marry a man my family had chosen, so I could return to Austria during the engagement. Later, when my parents realized I did not intend to go through with the wedding, my father told me, “The honor of this family is more important than my life or your

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