Personal Narrative: Moving My Life

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Moving your body makes your position change; you're physically not where you once were. Moving your life gives you a life change; you're not going to be in the same mental space as you once were. Most people fear moving like the plague for obvious reasons; like how that Ikea couch is way too damn heavy and poorly built to relocate across the country, or having the anxiety of having to make new friends, and worrying about where you'll get your eyebrows threaded or hair cut. While those are all real concerns, it's a tiny price to pay in comparision to the massive insight you'll gain from moving out of what you already know. When I left my small town in Connecticut to move to NYC I remember feeling a rush through my veins, my head would thump…show more content…
Her winters nipped me in the a$$ time and time again, and her fast pace gave my white hairs at the age of 22. So just like any other meloncholy love story, we broke up and I moved to Los Angeles; the one she had always feared was the side-chick. [Palm Trees] I've now lived in Los Angeles for two months, signed my first lease for what any New Yorker would consider a MASSIVE two-bedroom apartment. Life completely changed, and while I'm an advocate for change, it didn't change the fact that adapting is a slow and tedious process. I admit it, my heart was a little droopy at first. My best friends, my family, and my sigfig, all in NYC. What the hell was I doing in Los Angeles? I'm an energetic (*cough* stressful) person by nature, how did I find myself in the land of the laid-back? Prior to moving, my gut told me buying a one-way ticket out West would solve all of my problems, and yet sprinkles of doubt crossed my mind multiple times throughout the first two weeks. Because when you leave everything that's comfortable behind, you wonder why you did, It's…show more content…
A few weeks in I stopped trying to fit Angelenos in the same exact space where my New Yorkers permanently live in my heart. In short, I stopped b*tching about the same thing almost everyone in LA moans about: "The only thing bad about this place is the people." Instead, I created a new space for stories of these characters that I meet everyday. Some are aspiring producers, others are YouTubers like us, and of course, there are the classic screenwriters who always have witty punchlines to say. Although sometimes superficial and ridiculous, I appreciate the Angelenos for who they are. In the end, these are the people that will help define my meaning of LA. And plus, trying to convince myself that they should be exactly like my New Yorkers isn't helping
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